THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT SECTION: Pay attention! *grin* 

I DO SCREEN. BUT...IT REALLY IS NOT THAT DIFFICULT OR COMPLICATED!! I think with all the advertising boards and boards making $out of "verification services" it has guys really really confused! Dont' worry about it! Let me take care of that..it's REALLY simple and uber discreet!
..some brief guidelines below..to help avoid any back and forth....
  
 

About your Information: I keep absolutely no records, no emails, no phone numbers on file and have no desire to...my friends tend to be regular and I keep to a very small core of clientele. It will be handled with the uptmost respect and discretion. I am 100% independant...so all is handled by me..no one else..no phone assistant, no agency employees. This is the highest level of discretion I That being said..let me outline what is NOT SEXY in contacting me:
   
Lewd, vulgar or graphic emails. or contain sexual explicitness or refer to illegal services. This is not an offer for prostitution, and you are simply paying for my time and companionship. What we decide in our time together is simply between us as two consenting adults and not contracted for.

Emails which are one-liners... a true gentleman knows how to introduce himself... plus it excites me to know a bit about you!  

Signing your name as an initial on the first intro (example "D"..or some queer "board name" ) ...Seriously, playing James Bond is not sexy....Now being Daniel Craig or Sean Connery..yummo!

Simply Being "curious": I get many emails saying "I'm curious, tell me more"..with no intention of  being serious about finding a companion. Decisiveness is Sexy.

If you have further questions or if there is an extra need for discretion (perhaps above and beyond the typical executive) in your personal situation...please email me. This does not mean an anonymous meeting..but for details pertaining to "my cover"..possible paparazzi encounters.or .anything out of the norm that we need to prepare for.   Ultimate professionalism and discretion is key for the gentlemen I typically meet. I am very well-experienced in these situations.  

Phew! All of that put aside!.. I simply need for your to introduce yourself properly.. I'd love to know more about you!

1. Intro yourself with your name, age and about yourself.

2.  If you have ever seen another provider or two who may vouch for you..please let me know! include her website/contact information and how she will remember you.

. If you have not dated recently..no problem!: .please let me know this but also who you had seen in the past...even if they are not current..if it is a lady whom I am familiar with..it may be a great door opener for ease! )

IF YOU ARE COMPLTELY NEW: please let me know this too... I can lead you through relatively painlessly and easily. I'm not too scary! I AM Newbie friendly.

3. Details on when and where you'd like to meet with me..date/time/location  (Everyone seems to forget this Most Important Part!) :)

4.How long you'd like to spend with me..90minutes/2 hours...etc..

EXAMPLE of a GREAT INTRO:  "Hello..my name is John _____, I am 48 years old and saw your ad on TER. I am traveling to Denver this week and interested in a 2 hours date the evening of the 24th of May(Friday) . 7pm would be my preference but flexible. I am staying at the Sheraton and looking for you to visit me here. My references are ________ and _______. (website included) they will remember me from my name and the restaurant we went to ..Saw them about 2 months ago.  a note about me.. I love cycling, hunting and nice Italian wines and a fun loving down to earth nature in a lady. I can be reached at( phone number) but only before 5pm on business days. "

An example of what will probably be ignored:

"Hi. saw your ad. You're hot. Like to meet you. When are you avail?what's ur rates? send more pics please.  hit me up soon.. - Big D "

TO EMAIL:  MelindaMadison@gmail.com   With my career, I cannot always be on a phone line...so with Smartphone email is the fastest and most discreet for me.

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